“The vibe“

We are universes roaming the solar system. Every now and then we bump into each other. And when two worlds happen to vibrate on the same wavelength something clicks. A harmony we hope stands the test of time. But people come into our lives for a reason, be it a blessing, lesson, or both. And while few stay for a lifetime, most are for a season. The hard hack is to not assign forever to passing universes, but to enjoy and appreciate them while they are there.

Platonic connections generally fall into the acquaintance or friend category. The more layers are peeled off, the deeper a connection between two individuals. Acquaintances barely even scratch the surface of who we are, and frequent interaction shouldn’t give the illusion of closeness. The extent to which we are willing to come through for each other indicates what category we should be placed in. As knowing ones place in another person’s life promotes efficient time and energy management.

Life is simple yet complex. And friends are the people we choose to do it with. Those we stand by in the good and bad times. The few who can count on us and vice versa. In the way it takes two to tango, both parties need to be committed. Being intentional and building a healthy relationship takes effort. Precisely why discerning who is worth it is important. True friendship requires a certain level of depth and dedication. With a bit of luck some friends become family. Persons we hope to grow old with, perhaps a best friend turned sister.